A little curiosity. A few questions. A whole new possibility.
Ten short chapters. Take all the time you need.
Discreet. Thoughtful. Entirely yours.
A Her Confidant guide · Vol. 01
For women who are ready to put themselves first.
01 · Before we begin
Curiosity is enough.
You can want something new and feel nervous about it. Both are welcome here.
Perhaps this is your first experience of intimacy. Perhaps you are returning to it after a long time. Or perhaps you simply want an evening that feels entirely your own.
Her Confidant is a female-led companionship agency for women and couples, founded by Anna Grosman. Every booking starts with a conversation about you: the company you enjoy, your hopes, your questions and your boundaries.
This guide takes you from that first hello to the morning after. Read it in order, or open the chapter you need today. There is no obligation to book.
What brings you here today?
Choose what feels familiar. There is no right answer.
This reflection stays in this open guide. It is not sent to us.
There is no perfect way to begin.
02 · Meet Her Confidant
Your first hello is with Anna.
A real conversation with the woman who created Her Confidant.
Anna founded Her Confidant on Valentine’s Day 2024, after more than fifteen years working in intimacy. She wanted women to have a place where their questions, desires and boundaries could be heard.
She is involved from your first enquiry through matching, booking and the follow-up afterwards. You can ask the practical questions, the awkward questions and the ones you have not quite found words for.
Care, before everything
How are companions selected?+
Her Confidant’s selection process includes interviews, psychological screening, background and health checks, trial bookings and trauma-informed training. The focus is on emotional intelligence, respect and clear communication.
What does consent look like?+
Consent is ongoing and mutual. Your preferences can change during the booking. You can ask to slow down, take a break or stop, and your companion has the same right to set boundaries.
“You can love your life and want more pleasure in it. You can be starting again, or discovering something for the first time. There’s room for all of those conversations.”
Anna Grosman
03 · Nothing to rehearse
You can start with “I’m curious.”
You do not have to arrive with a plan. Anna can help you find the beginning.
Tell Anna as much or as little as you feel comfortable sharing. You might talk about the kind of evening you would enjoy, what has brought you here, or simply what you would like to understand.
Practical details matter too: your city, timing, budget and any accessibility or comfort needs. You can ask how information is handled and what would be shared with a companion.
What if I don’t know what I want?+
You can begin with that. Tell Anna what you are curious about, and what you are unsure of. There is no need to choose an experience before your first conversation.
Can I start with company only?+
Yes. The Prelude is a two-hour social-only experience. You can also ask Anna about a shorter, private meet-and-greet before deciding on a longer booking.
What will my companion know?+
Ask Anna exactly what information will be shared to arrange your booking. You can talk through your preferences and what you are comfortable disclosing.
What if I change my mind?+
You can change your boundaries or stop during an experience. For changes to a booking, cancellation or rescheduling, contact Anna and check the applicable terms.
Can we explore as a couple?+
Yes. Have a conversation with your partner first, then speak with Anna together about your individual wishes, boundaries and the Couples experience.
A useful opening: “This is my first time. Could you talk me through how it works?”
A conversation, at your pace.
04 · More than a photograph
How would you like to feel?
Attraction matters. So does the ease of being in someone’s company.
Anna considers personality, interests, communication style and your preferences when suggesting a companion. It helps to describe the kind of company you enjoy, as well as what catches your eye.
Her recommendation is a starting point. The choice remains yours. If you want more reassurance, ask about the private 45-minute social meet-and-greet before a longer booking. Anna can confirm its current rate and availability.
A few words you might bring to the call
Select any words that resonate. Use them to start a conversation.
These selections are not sent to Anna or used to make a match.
Explore the possibilities. You can decide with Anna, when you are ready.
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Her Confidant Experience
A little anticipation. A real connection. Time to find your own rhythm.
Begin with a relaxed social date, then continue in your agreed private setting when you feel comfortable. Anna helps you choose a companion and prepare for the experience.
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06 · A little clarity
Let’s make it feel simple.
The details are agreed before the date, so you can arrive knowing what to expect.
Give Anna your preferred dates and allow at least 48 hours where possible. Availability, location and any additional costs are confirmed before the booking is secured.
Bookings are secured by upfront bank transfer using the instructions Anna provides. Accommodation, dining, tickets, flights and applicable travel are additional. Ask for the full total and the current cancellation or rescheduling terms before paying.
You arrange your accommodation and activities, with Anna’s guidance if you need it. Keep her updated on the address, reservations and any changes.
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Choose, togetherCompanion, experience, date and location.
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Understand the detailsTotal cost, inclusions, boundaries and booking terms.
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Confirm with AnnaFollow her payment instructions and receive confirmation.
Keep booking arrangements and any changes with Anna.
Thoughtfully arranged. Personally yours.
07 · Make space for yourself
A little preparation. A little anticipation.
You do not have to become someone else for the evening.
Choose something you feel comfortable in. Give yourself enough time to arrive without rushing, and leave a little space in your day around the booking.
Nerves do not mean you have to push through. Tell Anna what is on your mind. If you need to change the plan, contact her and ask about the applicable booking terms. Your comfort matters.
Your little before-the-date list
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Your ticks stay in this open guide only. Closing it clears them.
Wear what makes you feel like you.
08 · The moment is yours
There is no script.
A hello. A conversation. Permission to take your time.
Anna checks in before the date and confirms how you will recognise each other. Let her know about any delays; once you have met, send a quick message to confirm the booking has begun.
Your time together follows the experience you chose. Social-first bookings begin in an agreed social setting. Any move towards intimacy depends on mutual consent, throughout.
You can slow down, pause, redirect or stop. Paying for time does not create an obligation to do anything. If you want to extend the booking, contact Anna to confirm availability and the additional price first.
Small words. Completely enough.
“A little slower.”“Can we pause?”“I’d like to stop.”
You never need to find a more convincing reason.
Your yes, your pause, your pace.
09 · The care continues
A little space to take it in.
You get to feel however you feel.
Anna follows up after the booking. You may want to talk, send a short message or take some quiet time first. Share what you want her to know, including anything you would have liked to be different.
If you are invited to share a Love Letter or speak about your experience, it is always optional. You can decline. Ask how your words and identifying details would be handled before agreeing.
Your information is handled by the people and service providers involved in delivering the service. You can read the privacy policy, ask questions or request access, correction or deletion through Anna.
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Anna checked in with me and made the whole process feel easy, safe, and supported from start to finish.
You have read the guide. You still get to take your time.
A welcome call is a chance to ask your questions, talk through the options and see whether Her Confidant feels right for you. Nothing is decided until you decide it.
Prefer a little more discovery first? The quiz can help you explore what draws you in. Or keep this guide and return whenever the time feels right.
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